Happiness Is An Inside Work

I will stop asking people "how are you?", because we often lie to ourselves about our feelings .

So sad,  we are ashamed to tell other people how we feel about events and circumstances in our lives giving us sleepless nights and making us unhappy all day long . 

I will tell you this today, every living being, man or woman, rich or pauper has one or two personal problems (puzzles) making  them search, buy, demand, expect and hope for a well befitting answer or solution, yet all they see is disappointment. 

Things will always happen, it will either be for a blessing or a lesson, life is unpredictable. Even though the society we live in has made us believe having  difficulties while navigating through life should be seen as a  taboo.

You just have to live each moment as it comes. Worries don't add to our well-being, it drains our energy. It makes us clueless, wasting reasonable time and energy with nothing to show for it. 

Every problem has its own solution, you just have to look inwardly at the cause and effect, then work it out.  “Happiness is an inside work” as said by Judy Kiar. Although it doesn't come cheap, you've got to make up your mind. All need to do is chose your well-being over other things.

Permit me to tell you this, you are not being selfish, you are practicing self-care. You can’t give out what you don’t have. You can’t  you can’t genuinely love and accept others for who they are, when you hardly express such to yourself. Even when you do,  it comes with a condition.  

We've got to act kind with no expectations. “Expectation”, Williams Shakespeare said, “is the root of all heartaches”. You got to love yourself with no expectations. Trust me everything will flow. 

What’s up?  hope you find this article helpful? Kindly share with your friends. 

ANYALEBECHI, GODWIN (#GDB)

Writer, Graphics Artist, Life Coach , Chef and Entrepreneur 

NEW DAY, NEW VISION

10-06-2020